tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1226666467004273962.post2886196154673196308..comments2024-03-16T02:08:47.189-04:00Comments on Random Musings: Beauty Ideals, Preferences And The UglyAbigailhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02676617514205166307noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1226666467004273962.post-46943468580227210572011-06-23T21:50:02.816-04:002011-06-23T21:50:02.816-04:00It pains me to read that you believe you're no...It pains me to read that you believe you're not beautiful. I hope you're not feeding into certain societal 'standards' or norms. You say your goal is to accept that the way you look doesn't match other people's preferences for women. But remember not everyone has the same preferences. Plus self-acceptance-cum-self-love translates into "beauty" or to relate it to Abigailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02676617514205166307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1226666467004273962.post-80107773275803063782011-06-23T21:20:36.703-04:002011-06-23T21:20:36.703-04:00I really liked this post, and I've written and...I really liked this post, and I've written and re-written a bunch of different responses. So I guess I should go with honesty.<br /><br />This subject is a huge internal dilemma for me. I'm not an attractive girl - I know this. I accept other people's preferences because it's not fair (or rational) to force people to like you or be attracted to you. <br /><br />At times I feel Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com