Random Musings

I received goodies in the mail last week -- two erotic short story collections. I just finished reading one of them,  Too Much Boogie: Er...

"Caesar, we found an island for you. It's in the middle of the Pacific Ocean,  off the coast of Costa Rica. I think you'll...

Recently I found out about a mixer/meet-up. I emailed the invite to a few friends to see who'd be interested in going. Geraldine and ...

I can honestly say no sexual intercourse took place in this bed. It was after 2am, we'd met at a cocktail lounge, kissed in the cab a...

I spent a few hours with a 33 year old architect from Milan. He responded to an ad I posted online; he was in NY to learn English and w...

Before the internet, there's no doubt people were curious about how their exes, one-night stands, could-have-beens or former friends w...

Photo credit: Fred Guenther As I sat in the corner two-seater of the Q train, under the refreshing air conditioner blast, two men...

I met a man a week ago for Sunday brunch. We'd confirmed plans the night before. On Sunday morning I received a text from him: I...

I've been waiting months to see this movie ... I enjoyed Rise of the Planet of the Apes . For those who don't believe in evo...

In August 2010, I was contacted by XI Magazine for an interview and book review for their Se-XI section. A few months after the piece we...

The universe places you exactly where you can achieve what you asked for.                                                                  ...

Apothéke is Native Creative Concierge™ approved. I returned. Absolutely no bladder issues . Just a great time. ...

I love fiction that's based on reality. Always have. I recently had to find my fiction sea legs again. I've been working on a st...

Bumper Sticker by Holly Kearl On my way home after a wonderful night, two men took it upon themselves to ruin my mood. Friday evening,...

Last year, I was on South Africa time for a month during the World Cup . This year, it's Germany. My Nigerian ladies were eliminated d...

I watch porn. I go through my moments where I binge. Clicking through pornhub to view the latest uploads. It's funny, the majority of...

July 4 is Independence Day in the US. In 1776, the Colonies had enough of being under British sovereignty and here we are, the USA with an...

This photo embodies everything about the NYC Gay Pride Parade--joy,  exuberance , loving who you are, loving life. 

This is the view from one of my windows. I took this photo for this blog after reading " On Exhibition " in The Summer Double I...

"What's ugly to you? What do you consider ugly?" he asked. I pondered out loud and asked for clarification--did he mean...