Random Musings

In July, I started to teach myself photography with a digital camera. I called the whole process the Learning Curve . I'm up to Day 27...

The Simpsons have always bitten the hand that's fed them and that opening sequence was the most visual, direct... biting   at 20th ...

I found this magazine just sitting outside my apartment building last night. Just sitting there. I didn't dig in the garbage to find ...

So we were taught that Christopher Columbus discovered America on his way looking for a new trade route to India but went the wrong way....

I watched The Expendables about 2 weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon (I should note I started scribbling this blog right after I watched it...

"Shut up!" Sue Sylvester to Rachel and Sunshine, the new exchange student, singing in the bathroom. That's exactly how I...

I had an early morning appointment with my OB/GYN. I jumped the gun earlier in the year and scheduled a Pap in April (I was actually not d...

I didn't leave home this morning intending to buy jeans, but the pair I was wearing (and all the pairs I have at home) are fading...

We're facing the last few weeks of summer and quite possibly hot, torrid summer affairs. For my readers in the Southern Hemisphere, I...

July 22, 2010  12:01am Gaining the confidence I need to finally start my portrait project, Emotional Black Male (once the work and ...

I live in America where there’s freedom of speech unless your words are considered "defamation", "fighting words" or ...

A primetime special to announce what team he’ll play for… ridiculous. It’s bad enough we’ll get the play-by-play and Monday morning quarterb...

I was checking the links on my website to see if they're still active, and to my dismay, I couldn't find my Spice Market review. Th...

Tavernas Kyclades is Native Creative Concierge™ approved. I recently went back to Astoria for dinner before an erotic event. We al...

I was exchanging texts with my friend, StarPower , about Monday Night Raw before the conversation shifted to UrbanErotika™, an event I co-...

I’ve been on South African time since June 11. And it’s been worth every second. I’ve gotten used to the early mornings. This event is very...

On Saturday night, I went to a burlesque show (shout out to Brown Girls Burlesque !). Yes, I, a straight woman, went to a show to watch oth...

I’m very dismayed that I have yet to receive a wedding invitation this season. Don’t let my quest for a divorce fool you, I really do enjo...

This essay was originally published in the Mahogany Soul Nappy Journey newsletter (June 2010). Subscribe and become a fan! I didn’t h...

The New York Times reported earlier this week that NYS divorce law is about to change . New York State is the only state that doesn’t g...