Now it doesn’t mean I’m single and on the prowl. Do you understand the joy of coming home after a long night out and flopping onto your bed without a snoring man who won’t stay on his side of the bed? After living with a man for 3 years, it’s heaven. My objective when I go out isn’t to hook up with a random dude. Call me crazy, but I’m not opposed to one-night stands or first-date hookups, but I still don’t understand the drunk make out/hook-up as an objective. However, for the single women who wonder why they never meet anyone, it may be because you’re never anywhere to meet anyone. I love hanging out with my girls. It’s necessary. But it’s easier for a man to approach a woman who’s by herself than with a group of cackling, eye-rolling homegirls.