Monday, September 10, 2012

Masturbating To The Thought Of You




"I'm gonna take some alone time before work...taking you with me ;)"  I received that text yesterday. I asked if he was texting with one hand. After a long break he said he was, that "I did quite well" and sent visual documentation of proof of work.


Without even being physically present, the thought of me aroused a man to the point of erection, masturbation, orgasm and ejaculation. We kid that anything can get a man to that point, but it's something else when he tells you it's you.


I'm currently reading Sex, Sin and Zen by Brad Warner. Beyond the adolescent footnotes about sex there's something to learn about how modern-day Western Buddhists view sex, relationships and the concept of sin (there is none for sin is a Christian thing). Warner tells of a time when he dated a born-again Christian who believed masturbation was a form of cheating because of the Bible quote "that to lust in your heart is the same as committing adultery."


Good Lord.



Imagine if that were true. Or if we all believed that. We'd be better off removing it off the "sin list" to save the human race. All the guilt and shame around sex is not progressive. Lots of times when a person masturbates, it's a thought, a memory of a situation, a person that triggers it and gets you off. I've called names during my solo sessions -- men that I have been with, men that I'll never be with. The man who sent me the text is a man I've had no physical sexual contact with. Will he do it again? Probably.


Some people masturbate to porn, lusting after the performers on their screen which means there are people who believe watching porn is committing adultery. I disagree. I don't need porn to masturbate. But I will continue to masturbate and enjoy the orgasms, glowing complexion, tension release and strengthened PC muscles that come along with it. I might even be thinking about you when I do.


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